{"id":3282,"date":"2025-01-28T06:00:40","date_gmt":"2025-01-28T11:00:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/tomme-stevenson.com\/website\/?p=3282"},"modified":"2025-01-16T12:22:09","modified_gmt":"2025-01-16T17:22:09","slug":"the-need-to-love-and-be-loved-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tomme-stevenson.com\/website\/the-need-to-love-and-be-loved-2\/","title":{"rendered":"The Need to Love and Be Loved"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-3315 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/tomme-stevenson.com\/website\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/Love-Dostoevshy.png?resize=525%2C183&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"&quot;To be loved is the fire that keeps us warm through the coldest winter nights.&quot;\" width=\"525\" height=\"183\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/tomme-stevenson.com\/website\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/Love-Dostoevshy.png?w=2030&amp;ssl=1 2030w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/tomme-stevenson.com\/website\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/Love-Dostoevshy.png?resize=300%2C105&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/tomme-stevenson.com\/website\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/Love-Dostoevshy.png?resize=1024%2C357&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/tomme-stevenson.com\/website\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/Love-Dostoevshy.png?resize=768%2C268&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/tomme-stevenson.com\/website\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/Love-Dostoevshy.png?resize=1536%2C536&amp;ssl=1 1536w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/tomme-stevenson.com\/website\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/Love-Dostoevshy.png?resize=1320%2C460&amp;ssl=1 1320w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 767px) 89vw, (max-width: 1000px) 54vw, (max-width: 1071px) 543px, 580px\" \/>The need to love and be loved is one of the most decisive impulses created in us at birth. 1 Corinthians 13 is one of the Bible\u2019s most significant chapters ever written on this subject.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>1 Corinthians 13<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong><em>If I speak in the tongues of men or of angels but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. 2 If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. 3 If I give all I possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that I may boast but do not have love, I gain nothing.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong><em>4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong><em>8 Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. 9 For we know in part and we prophesy in part, 10 but when completeness comes, what is in part disappears. 11 When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me. 12 For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong><em>13 And now these three remain faith, hope, and love. But the greatest of these is love.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<h3><strong>Love<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">This chapter captures the essence of our shared human experience: the deep and universal longing to love and be loved. At the heart of so many of our struggles lies this profound truth. Reflecting on my frailties, I see a common thread\u2014either I haven\u2019t loved enough or felt unloved. Our ego, insecurities, self-esteem, and self-image are all rooted in one pivotal question: How do we perceive the love in our lives?<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>John 15:13: \u201cGreater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">I yearn for that kind of love. A love so boundless that I would give my life for it. A love that surrounds, protects, fulfills, and sustains me. I want it to consume me\u2014to be overwhelming, awe-inspiring, even terrifying in its power. I want it to be extraordinary. And I long for it because that is how God created us to be: vessels for this incredible, life-altering love.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0Since love grows within you, so beauty grows. For love is the beauty of the soul. &#8211; <a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Augustine_of_Hippo\">Augustine<\/a><\/p>\n<h3><strong>He Loved First<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>1 John 4:19: \u201cWe love because He first loved us.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">These seven simple words hold staggering power. God\u2019s love is our foundation, yet I falter when faced with the messiness of human relationships. People are flawed\u2014they say, think, and do things that can be hurtful. They don\u2019t always love us in the way we desire or expect. But isn\u2019t that how I am to God? Flawed, unpredictable, and imperfect\u2014yet fully and unconditionally loved by Him.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>Romans 8:38-39: \u201cAnd I am convinced that nothing can ever separate us from God\u2019s love. Neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither our fears for today nor our worries about tomorrow\u2014not even the powers of hell can separate us from God\u2019s love. No power in the sky above or the earth below\u2014indeed, nothing in all creation will ever be able to separate us from the love of God that is revealed in Christ Jesus our Lord.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">This truth should anchor my heart. Nothing can separate me from the love of Christ. Yet, why do I still wrestle with feelings of isolation or struggle to love others freely?<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">The answer lies in our broken world. We live in a fallen creation, surrounded by people who often don\u2019t know Christ or understand the trustworthy source of love. The world distorts God\u2019s perfect love into something transactional and shallow. It\u2019s no wonder so many feel unfulfilled.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">But even in my humanity, even when I feel unloved, the way forward is not to focus on the love I receive but on the love I give. I find joy when I love others\u2014even those who do not reciprocate or deserve it. Through loving others, I feel the warmth of love in my heart.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>2 Thessalonians 3:5: \u201cMay the Lord lead your hearts into a full understanding and expression of the love of God and the patient endurance that comes from Christ.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">In loving others, I reflect on the very nature of God. Love isn\u2019t easy, but it is always worth it. 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