A life Worth Living

I got to thinking this morning about how God interacts with me through the Holy Spirit to prod me down a path toward a life worth living. My mind slowly went to why he puts certain people in my life, people with problems. I like problem-solving, but I am a sticks and bricks kind of guy, not colors and hues. The opportunities God presents aren’t always the people or problems with which I feel comfortable. Sometimes, to be truthful, I would prefer not to deal with them, but God sends them to me anyway.

Romans 15:2-3, “For I was hungry and you gave me food, I was thirsty and you gave me drink, I was a stranger and you welcomed me, I was naked and you clothed me, I was sick and you visited me, I was in prison and you came to me.”

Some problems I just don’t get, they seem petty and small. Some people I don’t understand because their problem never changes; they just can’t seem to act. Most are self-inflicted gunshot wounds. Some situations are so painful I wish I didn’t know. But God sends them my way away.

Proverbs 3:27, “Do not withhold good from those to whom it is due, when it is in your power to act.”

Now I know that I do not have any vast knowledge or talent for helping others. I have always been a common sort. But I also know that God does not put people in my life so I can show off. He puts them there so that He can show off His power and compassion. I have always thought of it as Him letting me be part of His plan for another. That was enough to spur me on.

1 John 3:17, “But if anyone has the world’s goods and sees his brother in need, yet closes his heart against him, how does God’s love abide in him?”

The reality is that God puts people in our lives as part of His plan for us. Through them, He can speak to us. Through them, He can help us see when we are petty. Through them, we can see how we do not act when a solution is right in front of us. Through them, we can see the pain in others and give thanks for sparing us the same experience.

Hebrews 6:10, “God is not unjust; he will not forget your work and the love you have shown him as you have helped his people and continue to help them”

God uses these moments to help us see how and when He works. When we are in the depths of our problems, it is hard to be objective. It is hard to step outside ourselves and survey the landscape before acting. It is hard to imagine a solution bigger than our wants.  But God does.

Matthew 25:40, “And the King will answer them, Truly, I say to you, as you did it to one of the least of these my brothers, you did it to me.”

In my life, God uses me to help others to teach me how He helps me. The scripture that feeds their soul, feeds mine. The intersection of their experience with mine is not just me being part of their plan; it is them being part of my plan. I’m not there to be a lifesaver or a lifeboat. I am on the sinking ship with them watching God save us both.

Philippians 2:4, “not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others.”

One of the things I have learned in my life is that the root cause of all anxiety is faith, or the lack thereof. I may have lost a job or have someone dear to me suffering; my anxiety does not come for the problem, it comes from my non-belief that God both cares about what I am going through and will act. Because I don’t think He will act, I do not see when He does. I start to believe in fate or serendipity or karma. I don’t see how wonderfully and skillfully God works.

Working through a situation with another allows me objectivity that opens my eyes to how God works. It will enable me to be more objective then I would be if the problem were mine.  He helps me see the times He intervened in my life. God may also show me when I could have leaned on Him and didn’t.

Hebrews 13:16, “Do not neglect to do good and to share what you have, for such sacrifices are pleasing to God.”

When you see someone in need, view it as part of God’s plan for your life. There is a lesson to be learned and an experience to be had, that will help them and yourself. Helping others is not about being a good guy. It is not about the glory of moving God’s plan down the road for another. It is about becoming the person that God knows you can be. It is part of the learning curve along the path to a life worth living.

James 2:14-17, “What good is it, my brothers, if someone says he has faith but does not have works? Can that faith save him? If a brother or sister is poorly clothed and lacking in daily food, and one of you says to them, “Go in peace, be warmed and filled,” without giving them the things needed for the body, what good is that? So also faith by itself, if it does not have works, is dead.”